They left Pakistan to escape Sharia Law but thanks to British tolerance it followed them

Protest in London against the Law Society’s guidance on Sharia Wills April 2014. Photo: Wikimedia Commons


The UK government is conducting an inquiry into the operation of Sharia courts which is being boycotted by a number of women?s organisations?

Parallel to this, the Home Affairs Committee has also launched an inquiry into whether the principles of Sharia are compatible with British law.

I cannot believe that they needed an inquiry. Sharia law is clearly not compatible with British law. It is religious law and British law is secular. It is hugely discriminatory against women.There is no equality in Sharia law.It’s punishments are brutal and barbaric and unacceptable in any civilised society. Those who think they can allow a dumbed down, kinder version of Sharia into Britain?are deluding themselves. Already this watered down version is hurting Muslim women.


I am a practising Muslim. My faith is central to who I am. I was born in 1947 in Pakistan and joined my husband in the UK in 1965.

…My older daughter, Lubna (not her real name) moved to London in 1994 after the breakdown in her marriage. After the British courts granted her a civil divorce, I hoped that would be the end of our involvement with my ex-son-in-law.

…He visited our local mosque and denounced me to the gathering, saying that I was ?a loose woman? who was pimping her daughters. He asked the mosque elders to help him get his children and his wife back to save their morals. A delegation from the mosque visited my home

… they said the English divorce meant nothing and was not valid in Islam.

Another Imam, a close family friend of ours, told us that Lubna would have to seek a khula (divorce) from a Sharia court. I vehemently disagreed and cited the cases of several Muslim women I had known who had been divorced in the English courts without any need for a religious divorce.

…The imam said the mosques had failed in their duty and that these women would go to hell as they were committing zina (adultery) and producing haram children. I reluctantly agreed to speak to Lubna.

We appeared before the Sharia court. The whole process in the Sharia court at Regents Park mosque was shocking. Lubna was dismissed every time she spoke; I was treated very disrespectfully every time I tried to intervene. They were not interested in anything we had to say, not even the real risks that my ex-son-in-law posed to his children let alone to my daughter. He had beaten my grandson a few years earlier and split his head open. He still has scars on his face.

None of the information from the civil proceedings (affidavit, non-molestation orders etc) was admissible in the Sharia Court. When Lubna?s ex-husband stated that he did not want to grant khula but wanted a reconciliation ?for the sake of the children?, the Judges agreed.

…At the next hearing, Lubna was told to reconcile and that a khula would not be granted. We were also told that my ex-son-in-law had custodial rights over my grandchildren and that they would remain with Lubna as long as my ex-son-in-law agreed.

After the hearing, Lubna lived with a sustained campaign of harassment and abuse from my ex-son-in-law. ?During this time he kidnapped my grandchildren and threatened to keep them if Lubna did not allow him to come and live with her. He threatened to kill me and my other children if she involved the police. It was only with the help of her father-in-law that the children were returned to her.

What happened next, I cannot even bring myself to say the words so I will quote from Lubna?s statement, ?Several weeks after the children were returned to me, my ex-husband began calling at all hours of the day and night (he had my address and contact details from the Sharia Court papers). I refused to let him in. I contacted the police and applied for a new non-molestation order. However, the harassment did not stop. Very late one night my ex-husband broke in and violently raped me. I did not report this to the police as I was too scared. After the rape he wrote to my mother and the Imam and told them I had slept with him and that we were now together again. My mother came to my house as soon as she received the letter and was shocked to see the injuries resulting from the violence I suffered that night.?

It breaks my heart ? all that she had to go through.

My family in Pakistan were horrified to hear that there were Sharia courts in England. My family sent written advice from several scholars in Pakistan and India which confirmed that there was absolutely no need for a khula as the civil divorce was recognised as a formal termination of the marriage; if Lubna were to remarry in Pakistan then a copy of the divorce from the English courts would be sufficient.

…I do not understand where these Sharia courts have come from. I come from the generation of immigrants to this country that was able to be part of British society and to be Muslim without the need for separate legal systems.

The ostracism began with people who had once been friends starting to avoid me.

…the incident at the mosque (where I was accused of pimping my daughters) had become common knowledge in the area where we lived. My children were no longer welcome in the homes of their Muslim friends. I used to sing the naats and nasheeds at prayer gatherings and was well known for doing this. All invitations to do this ceased.

Three of my other daughters have married non-Muslims and left Islam. I have suffered almost total ostracism for supporting them in their choices. My closest friend from childhood, who lives in the area, has stopped visiting me. My only wish has been for my daughters to be safe and happy. I taught them about their faith ? how to pray, fast, be good and decent human beings ? I did my duty as a mother. As for their choices in regard to their own religious practice ? they are adults and must make their own choices about what is right and wrong. Only Allah can judge us in the end.

… I am old now and tired of all of this. I wanted to share these experiences with you so that you can begin to understand how the community judges control women like me. I knew as a widow without a male to protect me I was an easy target. Even in London a big city with millions of people it is very hard to move away from this control.

My time is coming to an end, but I am so sad for the generations to come if we continue on the path of this new Islam.

Of course what she is experiencing is not a new Islam at all. It is simply the old Islam that has followed her family from Pakistan to Britain. She wanted to escape Islamic law and enjoy the freedoms and protections that only a secular society can give her but sadly Britain is tolerant of the very things that will ultimately destroy it. As much as she may love her religion it is not a religion of equality or fairness. Three of her daughters have escaped its shackles. I don’t understand why she clings to ?a religion that has caused her and her family so much unhappiness. She has been ostracised by her Muslim community. What does that tell her about the kindness, peace and tolerance of Islam?